Developing Healthy Attitudes
Bullying
Overview
Bullying can take many forms but it usually includes the following types
of behaviour:
- Physical: Hitting, kicking, pinching, punching, scratching, spitting
or any other form of physical attack.
- Verbal: This is the most common form of bullying. It includes
name-calling; insulting; remarks which can also be prejudice
related for example racist, sexist, homophobic, bi phobic,
transphobic or disability related; jokes; teasing; using sexually
suggestive or abusive language.
- Indirect: Spreading nasty stories about someone; exclusion from
social groups and being made the subject of malicious rumours.
- Cyber: Any type of bullying that is carried out by an electronic
medium, for example : text message; picture/video clip; phone;
e-mail; chat-room , Instant Messaging (IM), Social Networking sites
and bullying via websites.
Bullying can last for a short period or go on for years and is an abuse
of power by those who carry it out. It is sometimes premeditated,
sometimes opportunistic, sometimes occurs randomly and sometimes
serially.
Bullying relies on bystander (observers, onlookers, watchers)
doing nothing to stop the bullying or becoming actively involved in
supporting it.
Bullying can happen to anyone.
The Anti-Bullying Alliance includes the following principles
in its definition of bullying:
- Bullying behaviour deliberately causes hurt (either
physically or emotionally).
- Bullying behaviour is repetitive (though one-off
incidents such as the posting of an image, or the
sending of a text that is then forwarded to a group,
can quickly become repetitive and spiral into bullying
behaviour).
- Bullying behaviour involves an imbalance of power
(the person on the receiving end feels like they can’t
defend themselves).
Bullying is not:
- Teasing and banter between friends without
intention to cause hurt (although bullying can be
misrepresented as banter).
- Falling out between friends after a quarrel or
disagreement.
- Behaviour that all parties have consented to and
enjoy (note coercion can be very subtle).
Bullying can last for a short period or go on for years and is
an abuse of power by those who carry it out. It is sometimes
premeditated, sometimes opportunistic, sometimes occurs
randomly and sometimes serially.
Bullying relies on bystander (observers, onlookers, watchers)
doing nothing to stop the bullying or becoming actively involved
in supporting it.
Specific types of bullying include:
- Homophobic, biphobic and transphobic bullying because
of someone’s sexual orientation or sexual identity
- Racist bullying because of someone’s skin colour
- Religious bullying because of someone’s belief or faith
(including having no belief)
- Sizeist bullying because of someone’s body size
- Sexist bullying because of a person being of the opposite
sex
- Appearance related bullying because of appearance
- Cyberbullying targeting people online, often anonymously
- SEN/Disability bullying because of a disability or learning
difficulties
Bullying can make young people feel isolated and worthless,
lonely, anxious, angry and lacking confidence. Signs of bullying
include:
- Truanting/absenteeism
- Becoming withdrawn
- Tearfulness
- Distress
- Loss of appetite
- Avoiding people/situations
- Self harm
- Anxiety
- Depression
- Taking drugs or drinking
alcohol
- Thoughts of suicide
- Decreased performance
in school work for
unexplained reasons
- Refusing to say what’s
wrong
Key Facts
- There were over 25,700 Childline counselling sessions with children
about bullying last year. Source: NSPCC (2016)
- More than 16,000 young people are absent from school due to
bullying Source: Brown, V., Clery, E. and Ferguson, C. (2011)
- There were over 11,000 counselling sessions with young people
who talked to Childline about online issues last year Source: NSPCC
(2016)
Key findings from the UK Annual Bullying Survey 2016 by anti bullying
charity Ditch the Label include:
- 1.5 million young people (50%) have been bullied within the past
year.
- 145,800 (19%) of these were bullied EVERY DAY.
- People who have been bullied are almost twice as likely to bully
others
- 57% of female respondents have been bullied, 44% of male
respondents and 59% of respondents who identified as trans
have been bullied.
- 24% of those who have been bullied go on to bully.
- Twice as many boys as girls bully (66% of males vs. 31% females).
- 44% of young people who have been bullied experience
depression.
- 41% of young people who have been bullied experience social
anxiety.
- 33% of those being bullied have suicidal thoughts
Source: Ditch the Label 2016
Best Practice Resources
The Department of Education has produced guidance on
preventing and tackling bullying.
Government produced good practice case studies on
managing behaviour and bullying.
Stonewall have produced toolkits for preventing and
tackling homophobic, biphobic and transphobic bullying in
primary schools
and secondary schools.
The Anti Bullying Alliance has produced a Tools and
Information section about all things bullying.
The Legal Dimension
The Equality Act 2010
The Public Sector Equality Duty under the Equality Act 2010
requires all schools in England to eliminate discrimination;
promote equality of opportunity and foster good relations, this
means schools need to tackle and prevent bullying.
Education and Inspections Act 2006
Schools have a duty to promote the safety and well-being of
all children and young people in their care which means clear
responsibilities in responding to bullying.
Human Rights Act 1998
Schools could be challenged under the Human Rights Act
1998, if they allow the rights of children and young people that
they work with to be breached through failing to take bullying
seriously.
Safeguarding children and young people
Under the Children Act 1989 a bullying incident should be
addressed as a safeguarding concern when there is ‘reasonable
cause to suspect that a child is suffering, or is likely to suffer,
significant harm’.
Criminal law
Although bullying in itself is not a specific criminal offence in
the UK, some types of harassing, threatening behaviour or
communications could be a criminal offence.
Bullying outside school premises
The Education and Inspections Act 2006 gives Headteachers the
power to regulate pupils’ conduct when they are not on school
premises and are not under the lawful control or charge of a
member of school staff. This can relate to any bullying incidents
occurring anywhere off the school premises, such as on school
or public transport, outside the local shops, or in a town or village
centre.
Ofsted
Ofsted inspections explore how schools prevent and tackle
bullying, and will explore how the school meets its statutory duty
to prevent all forms of prejudice based bullying and language.
References
Brown, Victoria, Elizabeth Clery, and Christopher Ferguson. “Estimating the
prevalence of young people absent from school due to bullying.” Nat Centre Soc Res 1
(2011): 1-61.
Barnsley Resources
Local Offers and Providers
Provider |
Kooth |
What they Offer |
Kooth (www.kooth.com) is a British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy accredited service, providing a free, safe and non-judgemental place for young people to connect with others and know they are not alone. They have instant access to self-help materials, live moderated discussion forums and tools such as online journals and goal trackers.
Young people can also contribute written pieces of work reflecting their own experiences, as well as accessing drop-in or booked sessions with professional counsellors from 12pm-10pm weekdays and 6pm-10pm at weekends. Kooth is available to young people in Barnsley, Rotherham and Doncaster across the ages of 11-25 years and young people across Sheffield aged 11-18.
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Cost |
Free |
Contact Details |
Website: https://www.kooth.com
Email: Contact David Barthorpe
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Provider |
My Body Is My Body |
What they Offer |
My Body Is My Body is the global movement of child safety education. The programme aims to education and empower both adults and children on the subject of abuse prevention. The programme covers body image and self esteem, bullying, sexual abuse and sexual consent.
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Cost |
Free |
Contact Details |
Website: https://mbimb.org
Email: Contact Chrissy Sykes
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Provider |
LGBTQ+ Online Inclusivity Toolkit |
What they Offer |
The toolkit evolved from a collaborative project working with members of the LGBTQ+ community to identify online discrimination directed at sexual and gender minorities, but to also find practical strategies to reduce online hate and work towards more equitable digital participation. The toolkit is therefore specifically focused on online interactions, from social media platforms to WhatsApp and other instant messenger communications. It is intended for everyone who uses online spaces with several sections, including for general online users and educators (in schools, colleges, and universities),
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Cost |
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Contact Details |
Website: http://lncn.ac/4qn
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Provider |
Trans-Ed Advisors CIC |
What they Offer |
Training for school staff on supporting their LGBTQ+ students and colleagues. Including how to navigate coming out, dealing with bullying and crimes, and approaching RSE lessons for LGBTQ+ relationships
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Cost |
Starting at £100 for all staff courses |
Contact Details |
Telephone: 0209802954 / 077027623278
Email: Contact Leah Thompson
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Doncaster Resources
Local Offers and Providers
Provider |
Doncaster Council |
What they Offer |
Their local Family Hub also has lots of services and support for families with children, some especially for children with extra needs. Family Hubs are where you can meet people face to face. There are 12 Family Hubs around Doncaster Borough. Visit the Family Hubs page to find out opening times, group and fun activities, and contact details for the nearest Family Hub to you. The 12 Doncaster Family Hubs are also on facebook.
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Cost |
Free |
Contact Details |
Website: http://www.doncaster.gov.uk/services/schools/contact-us
Telephone: 01302 734110
Email: CYPSSafeguardingsupport@doncaster.gov.uk
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Rotherham Resources
Local Offers & Providers
Provider |
Rotherham Barnsley Mind |
What they Offer |
Group work for 6/8 people to raise awareness of the topic. We will also provide coping techniques and strategies to empower the young people in a safe space
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Cost |
£50 |
Contact Details |
Website: www.rbmind.org.uk
Telephone: 01709 919929
Email: cypscontactus@rbmind.co.uk
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Provider |
Kooth |
What they Offer |
Online counselling support, information and advice for all young people 11- 25
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Cost |
Free |
Contact Details |
Website: www.kooth.com
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Provider |
Rotherham United Community Sports Trust |
What they Offer |
Banter vs Bullying Workshop
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Cost |
External Funding / £300 a day or half day £125.00 |
Contact Details |
Email: abayou@rotherhamunited.net
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Provider |
Rotherham United Community Sports Trust |
What they Offer |
Anti-bullying Targeted intervention (6-week at 1 hour per week)
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Cost |
£210 |
Contact Details |
Email: jgilberthorpe@rotherhamunited.net
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Provider |
DECSY |
What they Offer |
Training, resources and curriculum development projects relating to cultural diversity, racism, gender equality, philosophy for children.
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Cost |
Full day training: £600 / Half day / twilight: £400 |
Contact Details |
Website: www.decsy.org.uk
Telephone: 0114 2412750
Email: helen.griffin@decsy.org.uk
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Sheffield Resources
http://www.barnardos.org.uk/what_we_do/our_work/lgbtq/professionals/hbt-bullying.htm
https://www.childline.org.uk/info-advice/bullyingabuse-safety/
https://www.nspcc.org.uk/preventing-abuse/childabuse-and-neglect/bullying-and-cyberbullying/what-isbullying-cyberbullying
https://www.ditchthelabel.org/
Local Offers and Providers
Provider |
SAYit |
What they Offer |
Whole day of workshops to classes.
2.5 hour staff training in LGBT+ awareness and staff/management
support in work with pupils and teachers, support in developing
LGBT friendly and HIV friendly policies and procedures.
Presentations for assemblies.
1-1 work-blocks of six sessions. |
Cost |
Some provision is funded
please contact info@sayit.org.
uk to find out more. |
Contact Details |
info@sayit.org.uk
0114 241 2728
www.sayit.org.uk |
Provider |
CRESST |
What they Offer |
CRESST run programmes of conflict resolution education which
teach people to understand conflict, how it arises and the ways it
can be managed without violence.
CRESST can also support by training young people to become
Peer Mediators within their schools and communities. |
Cost |
Costs for primary schools
around £1,200, subsidised by
CRESST.
For secondary schools, contact
office for details of bursaries. |
Contact Details |
0114 241 2745
admin@cresst.org.uk
www.cresst.org.uk |
Provider |
Door 43
(Youth
Information
Advice and
Counselling
Service) |
What they Offer |
Direct access to a range of emotional wellbeing and practical support for
young people age 13-25 with a counselling offer and wellbeing café with
activities and support open 5-7pm on Tuesdays. |
Cost |
Free |
Contact Details |
0114 201 2774
Door43@sheffieldfutures.org.uk
43 Division Street open Monday
– Friday 9am - 5pm and Saturday
9.30am - 12.30pm
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Provider |
Kooth |
What they Offer |
Online counselling support for 11-18 year olds in Sheffield. |
Cost |
Free |
Contact Details |
Register online: www.kooth.com |
Provider |
DECSY |
What they Offer |
Training, resources and curriculum development projects relating
to cultural diversity, racism, gender equality, philosophy for
children. |
Cost |
Full day training: £600
Half day / twilight: £400 |
Contact Details |
0114 2412750
helen.griffin@decsy.org.uk
www.decsy.org.uk |
Provider |
Golddigger
Trust |
What they Offer |
Golddigger Trust is a Sheffield based Charity, offering a variety
of wellbeing projects, both within the school environment, and
extra-curricular activities within the community, for young people
aged 11-19.
Services include:
1:1 Mentoring – Bespoke, flexible programmes of mentoring
for students addressing specific needs identified. Minimum 6
sessions (usual course approx. 8-14 sessions).
Students accessing Golddigger Trust services via school can also
access additional free services outside of school hours, including
drop in youth clubs, sexual health clinic, sports and music
sessions and online support. |
Cost |
Cost varies based on service
and available charitable
funding, contact for most up to
date costings.
Community based services are
free, accessed by community
referral (MAST, CAMHS, Selfreferral
etc). There is no charge
to young people. |
Contact Details |
0114 327 1191
Golddigger Trust Centre For Young People,
10 Psalter Lane,
Sheffield, S11 8YN
info@golddiggertrust.co.uk
www.golddiggertrust.co.uk |